WHY MUST BE ANGRY

The burden of the work in the office if being kept still by even more, the frequency attends meetings with the management or gave the briefing to the subordinate. When we return to the working table, Then the bundles would even more, if not fast is read and corrected, Then the bundles will increase many and many, no longer had several friends an office that like to condemn our work, finally to stress fact the burden of this work and often emotions to is not control by reprimanding the subordinate or condemning the superior who gave the work, easy is touch on and is easy angry.

Why must stress and why must be angry, why emotions to is not controlled.

Please calm yourself, the motivation ourselves by having the feeling thank heavens that is unlimited, how during the first time when we did not yet receive the work, we apply for the work to several offices, we have a great number sent the application letter through the post office, bought the newspaper and read or search possibly had the work vacancy in accordance with the experience and our education.

Calm yourself, the motivation ourselves with the feeling thank you, because with the existence of the work that menumpuk that is in accordance with our wish to gather and work in the office that at this time became our place worked.

Start with Smiling, read one by one the bundle of the bundle and the correction, in order to not have the fatal mistake that we done. by reading and correcting the bundles in a manner did not realize we increase knowledge and the experience that are very useful for us as well as change the pattern we thought in facing all the problems in order to be able to think wiser in taking all the decisions, because of the exact decision so became the positive value in the eyes of the management or our subordinate.

SELF MOTIVATION WITH APPRECIATING THE OTHER PERSON

That morning my Manager said:”that yesterday he angry with one of his employees”.
He is very angry because of the employee in carrying out the task that is given had not been finished, always not neater, and tend slow. in fact some works are help by several other employees that a part are different, in fact the colleague who help had the work and other responsibility that also must be completed, the lag in carrying out the work it is suspect deliberate is carry out by the employee, possibly in the hope that always is help by the other colleague.

Yesterday anger reach climax, the employee is called and is given by the warning.” is hoped for so that in carrying out his task must be fast, might not be help and appreciate the friend 's time that helped, if not having the change then the employee is ask to resign.

Indeed in a team of our work might not consider himself important, we must realize that in a team all that is done to on behalf of the team, we must study and must be able to appreciate the other person, appreciate the person 's other time, appreciate the person 's other exertion, so that we could be also appreciate by the other person, the work that is assign to us is our responsibility and must be complete well why we must appreciate the other person, certainly we must realize that our friend also had responsibility for the work that is given and had the time target to be able to complete his work.

We must dare to correct ourselves, why we are always slow in carrying out the work, want to neat, thorough or indeed already our characteristics. if want to neat and thorough, why we still in reprimand that our work is not neat always the disorder, not thorough always careless, if like that meaning that possibly already our characteristics that are not more thorough.

Because of that we must continue to motivate ourselves and to learn about all the weaknesses of the weakness to be in ourselves, we might not embarrass to join seminars about the identity, the self development, to increase the belief himself and the exercise so that not careless, not thorough, learn to appreciate the person 's other exertion, learn to be grateful to the person who help us, certainly we will also be appreciate by the other person, because that continue to the spirit, thorough, diligent neat and it is hop high-achieving.

SELF MOTIVATION WITH AMBITION

In undergoing the life, someone must had the ambition, that is a wish, the desire, the dream that is want and follow by means of the method that is positive without doing something that is consider by the negative, in the workplace usually had an employee who is assign as an office attendant he has the goal so that sometime in the future he becomes one of the management 's drivers, or An employee will have feelings sometime in the future he must become a supervisor or a manager, certainly this not easy he turn the hands palm.
There is a process that must be followed, preparations launched, preparations for the capacity, the self-confidence, and could be responsible, had the experience and the level of appropriate education for the position.
To become a driver certainly must have skills in driving, understood with the regulation and the traffic signs, seldom understood about the car machine and pass the exam to get the Driver Licence, this is not yet enough because someone the driver must also have the level of high patience and unemotional, everything want to become one of the management 's drivers of all these conditions must indispensable is owned.

Someone the ambitious employee wants to become the head of the sale or the Marketing Manager, certainly the employee must prepare with experiences in the sale field, he must have the capacity:
1) Product knowledge that is sold
2) How made the buyer want to be ask to listen to what is explain and interacted.
3) Made the buyer be attract by the thing that is sold by him.
4) Made the buyer buy the thing that is offer
5) And made the buyer become his customer.
6) Could coordinate and co-operate with the teams of the sale

Whereas to become a Marketing Manager, not only he could do what is done by the Sales Manager, but he must also have the capacity and:
1) could analyze the potential for the market
2) could determine the policy of the price, that benefit the company and to compete with the price of the competitor.
3) could determine exact time when the commencement held the promotion or the exhibition in events.
4) had the network of the strong customer.
5) knowledge about the power of his competitors, so as to be able to prepare a strategy that is exact in facing the competitor.
6) wise in leading the teams of the sale and his work staff.

So who had the right to have ambitions to become someone that once he wanted, the origin had the experience, the capacity and the feeling of high responsibility.” have a good day at work and reach the achievement.

Change Your Life For The Better!

Are you still hoping and waiting for someone somewhere to come to your rescue, wave a magic wand and instantaneously change your life for the better?
Are you praying that you will one day win the lottery and dramatically alter the financial quality of your life?
Are you sitting behind your desk, daydreaming and hoping to one day rise to the top level of management without much effort and hard work?
Are you hiding in the background, silently praying and hoping that you will find favor, get noticed and be thrust into the limelight of your destiny?
If you are tired of hoping and endlessly waiting for something positive to happen or someone to come to your rescue, make a deliberate decision today to take charge of your own life and begin to lead a fulfilled and productive life.
4 things to consider as you decide to change your life for the better.
1. Value yourself.
Value yourself, your life and your time. Value what you represent. Don't compromise what you are worth for anything. Your current position may not accurately define who you are, but if you place a high value on yourself, you will not only have greater expectations for yourself, but also be open to more possibilities and opportunities.
People who place a high value on themselves can confidently walk into any arena of success and take their place comfortably. They fit right in because this is what they have been waiting for their whole lives and they know that they deserve it!
2. Take responsibility for your own destiny.
Be practical and stop expecting other people to rescue you from your current distress. People can only do so much?the rest is up to you and your God given abilities and resolve. Get rid of the dependency syndrome! It incapacitates and blinds you from doing great things with your life and getting the success you so much yearn for.
If you are not going to be the recipient of a large inheritance or if you have not yet won the lottery, begin to do the right thing by charting your own road map to success and working intelligently, meticulously and persistently to achieve your success.
3. STOP doing what does not work!
If you desire to change your life for the better?take a minute to consider specific aspects of your life over the last three years. Have you seen any improvement in your business? Have you lost weight? Are you still working at the same place that stifles your creative abilities? Are you still in the dreaming phase of that project you wanted to accomplish? Are you still procrastinating about going back to school? Are you still doing the same things that produce unproductive and dissatisfying results?
How much longer can you keep doing the same things that don't work? You only have one life to live and if you plan to live a fulfilled life, stop doing what doesn't work, start doing the things that work and change your life for the better.
4. Take a definite tangible action step today!
Changing your life for the better means doing something today that produces results! If you can't take radical steps, take small deliberate steps towards the change you desire. One of the greatest impediments to success is procrastination. It is so often used as an excuse for inaction to the point that it has become so mind-numbing!
No one wants to hear that the only reason why you have not managed to turn your idea into reality is because you have been procrastinating! People want to stand and cheer for the doer and the achiever who has taken positive steps to improve the quality of their lives. These are the inspiring stories that we read about everyday and you too can be that story.

Source of the article by Caroline Jalango
About The Author
Caroline Jalango is a life coach for unstoppable women who are willing to step up to the plate and take a shot at living exceptional lives wherever they are. www.motivationzone.com

SELF MOTIVATION WITH APPRECIATING TIME

Why must we appreciate time, because of time yesterday that is enjoy by us would not is repeat again on this day, while tomorrow we will not know what will happen, without realized, occasionally we also felt that days went by the board, in fact seem like without having the change, all monotonous, got up the morning, read the newspaper, went to work with the impasse, worked, had lunch, came home with the impasse again, watch television and or at once sleep, or the other same activity and like that henceforth.

So as not rare we felt we pass the same situation from time to time, if that is felt by us, in fact we are trapping in boring daily routine, and when that is left alone continually, then in fact we already including the person who ran at a loss, because that already during him we improve ourselves to appreciate time by increasing the quality and the capacity by passing the day so that far more significant.

By that had one matter that is certain in this world, that every time that lived, will head towards the death, whether tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, or sometime in the future, the death will come without could be postponed again, if already during him arrived, not will have any that could prevent us from the death that pick up, because, the death is natural rights that the power, consequently, really lucky the person who could make use of time before dying, to do that is best in his life.

With the awareness would the death that must pick up, necessarily we could generate the spirit to always make use of time as maximally as possible, because, time would not occur again, the opportunity possibly also only came one time, so don 't neglect time, because all that will only produce regret only.

Truly, this life will be far more significant if we could appreciate time by giving the capacity is best for product the achievements that is useful to yourself, and for the other person, develop the potential yourself to be useful for the other person.

Then, in each available opportunity, when time is still remaining, is dedicate by us himself to always did that is best, for himself, and the other person, by could be responsible for the life personally, at first if being useful for the other person, certainly, daily that is undergone by us could become the day that is full of the passion, the optimist, and dynamic.

Therefore we must feel that every day is the new day, the different day from yesterday, every day is the new reality that must we syukuri by making him be full of the meaning, today might be still being similar with yesterday, but, today must be better than yesterday, because that if we carry out the mistake yesterday, today also must immediately we the correction, if we carry out goodness yesterday, today must even more goodness that is spread by us.

Passing of time, would not had been repeated, not there is in order to regrets time yesterday that went, because we live on this day, so, come on pass our new day with the spirit that is on to make tomorrow to the day that better than this, do not be sad is apart with yesterday, also should not feel restless with the failure that passed, because we could repaired this day. Should not let today only yawn just like that without the meaning, let’s carve today with the achievement!.

SELF MOTIVATION WITH THE FEELING OF LOVE

The true love is not located in what is done and known, but in what is done, whether is known or not, the true love could not be reveal with words, because, the love could be only felt in the spirit.

There is gotten by the sincerity and the integrity that did not expect some sort replies, like the love and the sacrifice of a mother to his child to be the shape of a true love that could not be consider and is replaced by anything, love of the mother brought the happiness for the child, this the meaning actually from a pure love, then, spread the love with the sincerity and the integrity, we will find the true happiness.

Likewise in carrying out the work in fact not for the interests of the company, work the identity is for the enjoyment ourselves, as long as we enjoy what is done by us did everything with responsibility and with all your heart, then anything results that we could, will cause the happiness that actually, even so is the reverse, if we work not with all your heart, then, the loss that will be received by us.

Therefore, made each work and responsibility that is given not as the burden, but the challenge that must controlled with the determination and the sincerity, for the sake of the success that want to be gain by us.

Make the work the battlefield that must be fought for by us with all my heart to gain the victory that actually, we will continue to the spirit and struggle as hard as possible in order to gains results of the best success.

Be convinced, maximal results would we receive if we always genuinely fulfill the task and our responsibility, the salary increase, the honor, the acknowledgment from the other person, abundant money, the high-ranking position, and all the forms of the other success of the gift from our struggle personally.
But, more than all that, if we always did all the tasks of the sincerity and the love that are deep in the work, the gift that he thought far more significant from material would we could, namely true heart satisfaction

Love the work with all your heart, present results that are best from each task that is given, is enjoy by us each process of the work with the happy heart, then we will all feel that not as the burden, but as the happiness and pleasure.

Permanently the spirit and carved the achievement!.

SELF MOTIVATON WITH THE GOODNESS SEED

As humankind indeed we did not escape from the lack and the mistake, because that inside carry out an action would we always thought positive, did something with goodness, is ask for or is not ask for, spread goodness seeds to friends or whoever need help, immediately is help by us honestly without asking for the repayment or the recompense.

Although in our condition is having the problem that must be resolved by us, here we are facing a challenge to be able to have a wise attitude in resolving a problem, that is the problem himself and the problem of the other person, because that ought to be realized by us that: what is scatter by us, whether deliberate or not, is remember or forgotten, now or sometime in the future, definitely will be reap by us results, then, when we invest goodness, anything his form, at one time definitely the goodness will come back to us also.

In basically in himself all humankind had the characteristics of the helper but the quality of the element of the helper of each kind of humankind not same, the quality bounce that is solder in himself that will distinguish and determine our success in the future.

Because of, that we must always try to increase the quality in himself, so as the seed of the goodness that is spread by us will produce the success had a quality, and certainly gave the benefit for himself and our surrounds.

So, let 's improved the attitude, refined the character, maintain the cleanliness of the heart, and always increase the capacity himself, in this way, bounce we will be increasingly is rich in goodness seeds that will grow fertile became goodness for himself and the other person, continue to dig up the potential himself and spread goodness, then the true success will be enjoy by us one day later.